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The following quotes were written by young people at
the end of their 2008 Connecting Cultures journeys. |
Religion, whether Islam or Christianity is a beautiful
gift when not corrupted. I have personally never
been a particularly religious person and have often
held the view that without religious beliefs the
world would be a far simpler and more peaceful place.
However, after talking to the Muslim girls about
their faith and watching them pray together, I envy
the unity and peace they all seem to have.
I now strongly believe that if the core principles
and practices of all faiths could be discussed and
taught in school then misunderstandings and fiction
would be reduced.
Kate Muir Jones, UK
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This
journey has made me see the real faces and voices
of Middle East people, and I can say right now
that they’re quite different of the news
about this region that we watch in our western
media. Because of that prejudgment, I wasn’t
sure about the good understanding between all
of us in this journey. Now, when this incredible
experience is about to finish, I leave Oman with
a very good feeling inside. I’ve witnessed
wonderful debates these days. In some of them
we reached agreements very quickly. In others,
however, our opinions were further and the debates
more passionate because of that, but always knowing
that we are concerned with the same things: peace,
justice, happiness, among others. I see how the
lack of communication is one of the fundamental
problems of our days.
Santiago
Lozano Lopez, Spain
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I
learnt I am not alone in the world with things
to say and ideas for change. It was reassuring
to know there were others learning new things
alongside me. I learnt nothing is impossible for
our future – if you find something you believe
in to be flawed/incorrect, it is alright to change
your position and admit to yourself that what
you believed might be wrong. I appreciate the
value of water – we all take our resources
for granted, we must preserve our wealth and our
honorable values.
Bushra,
Jordan
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It
is of great satisfaction to provide and share
knowledge from your own point of view as well
as gaining valuable insights on how my country
and my nationality are recognized, considered
and understood from perspectives that I never
came across before. I have learnt more about the
Islam and the Arabic culture during these five
astonishing days and got into such deep and thoughtful
debates than I ever was able to during my time
at school. It is not about overruling or adopting
other cultures but to build a mature awareness
of them and by this becoming able to live peacefully
together and respect each other. Projects like
Connecting Culture are a key element in a strategy
that not even aims for ensuring but also to enlarge
and extend the ability of people to communicate
more properly.
Peter
Cramer, Germany
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Islam
is not that different from Christianity, both
have one God, one Holy Script, both agree violence
is not acceptable, killing is unacceptable bar
self defense. Both place the family at the centre
of their lives. We all want a loving family, good
education, honest jobs, stable government, good
health care and most importantly peace.
Charlie Hamilton, UK
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Also,
now I know how to act, behave and deal with people
from different countries. Also, I think that I’m
proud because I’m an Omani Muslim and I
was a part of this amazing experience. Also, I
learned how to connect and cooperate with people
from different countries, ages and ways for thinking
without any misunderstanding between you and them
Noor Al-Wahibi, Oman
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I
have learnt that girls are similar no matter what
country they are from, common ground can always
be found. We all share similar values, hopes and
ambitions. Most importantly, we can all see the
negative aspects of todays world and how reducing
cultural misunderstanding is key to improvement.
Kate Muir Jones, UK
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I
have discovered myself better. I danced in front
of the bedouins and my new family without fear
(For there was nothing to fear)
Rifaa Al-Harthy, Oman
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I
have also seen how extremely important religion
is of the people of the Middle East, this I did
not realize before coming. Something which find
very hard to relate with my Dutch, atheist background.
I think it is very important for people from both
the Middle East and Europeans to have clear insight
in each others norms and values and realize and
accept that they are different. This I have certainly
achieved in these five days.”
Bastiaan Molleman, Netherlands
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I’ve
learnt the extent to which the media and stereotyping
actually influences our minds, we really don’t
know enough about other cultures to even begin
prejudicing/judging.
Anne-Marie
Piper, Oman/Australia/UK
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For
example, I thought the European countries were
against Islam, and consider it the main cause
of terrorism in the world. However, I was pleased
to find out that this is not true and that it
is the media that portrays such ideas that have
no basis in reality.
Khalfan
Al Matrooshi, UAE
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I
have learnt how important it is to break down
the stereotype of East versus West, Christian
versus Muslim! It really should be the global
community versus the Minority who cause harm,
pain and destruction. It is necessary to separate
the terrorist from the country or religion
to which he may belong. It is also very important
that the media makes this distinction so that
whole nations or religions do not feel alienated.
The importance of basing an opinion on knowledge
and correct facts. Cultural misconception
is endemic in todays world. I came to Oman
with a vague idea about all of the countries
that were participating. However, as I learnt
more about the girls, their customs and countries,
I have come to realize what little knowledge
I had built my opinions on.
In
the future, I hope I will be less inclined
to have opinions unless, to my knowledge,
they are very informed.
Kate
Muir-Jones, UK
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“Firstly,
I thank Allah for being chosen to participate
in this trip.
I
have learned through this trip that it is essential
to create a personal, face-to-face, platform for
the communication between different people in
order to share the norms and traditions in an
effective manner, contrary to the secondary forms
of communication, i.e. telephones and internet
connections. There are things in life that need
to be seen and experienced first hand, rather
then through other means such as the TV and other
media sources.
Audai Sami Mohammed El Zoubi, Jordan
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People
from different cultures have more in common
than they have differences. By talking to each
other we have found out that we all share similar
values, beliefs and ambitions as well as issues.
I
have learnt to what extent stereotyping causes
tension between the West and the East.
Corinne
Timmis, UK
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There
are differences between our beliefs. However
there are certainly more similarities. On the
first day, after an activity to get to know
each other, personality traits were easy to
distinguish for different people in the group.
These traits were just the same as for people
in a random group in any country around the
globe. Once cultural differences are overcome
and barriers are broken it is clear to see that
all of our basic morals were clearly the same
even though we have all been brought up in very
different ways. Ignorance of culture is the
main barrier between cultures coexisting harmoniously.
Without a greater understanding of how different
cultures function, it is impossible to have
a world in which different cultures can exist
peacefully – especially when economically
driven requirements become involved.
It
would be very naïve to believe that all
differing cultures can agree with all other
cultures. It is unrealistic to foresee this
happening in the near future. What is more realistic
and more important is that we all accept all
different cultures the world over.
Oliver
Russell, UK
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We
are all just humans; with our joys, dreams,
tears, feelings, family, friends, etc Every
culture has its own positive and negative things.
In all cultures (almost all) people can live
happy lives. None is superior to any other culture.
Karin,
Netherlands
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We
have things in common that outweigh our differences.
We might have different priorities but that
is OKAY! We should respect the differences
and embrace the similarities. Even the smallest
voice counts. It is the duty of ourselves
and the people around us to speak and to be
heard. We were blessed with ears and mouths
and we should not let our pride or ignorance
clamp either shut.
Alia
Al Lawati, Oman
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Connecting
cultures was a unique learning school that provided
me the perfect opportunity to make up my mind
about where I stand at this moment and which
way to follow to become who I want to be. The
beautiful journey we shared provided me a mirror.
I learned that I am getting so many possibilities
to step up and make a difference. I now feel
I have a certain kind of obligation to really
do so. I’m absolutely sure that the end
of the experience is the start of change in
a positive way.
Rachida, Morocco
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